So I haven’t written in quite some time, or spent time on this forum. I’ve spent my time on Facebook. It’s an empire, it is. You build a network of family and friends and it makes communication with them so much easier than conventional communication.
However, there becomes the conundrum of unknown or semi-known peoples, who friend you, and vice versa. At first it seems harmless because other ideas are thrown out there, and that’s not a bad thing. I don’t want an echo chamber of my own ideas, I do want to hear opposing opinions and other viewpoints, they help me either solidify my own thoughts or maybe take them down a different pathway.
But I have this thing, where I call it as I see it and that includes when some of my conservative “friends” go off the deep end. And they in turn have this problem with being called on their dogma, being shown the racism inherent in their Tiger Woods jokes, and having their “news” sources being called into question. Instead of ever admitting they might have been wrong, they instead employ a number of tricks that call into question their sincerity in being my friend at all.
I’ve been advised by Jim Sathe (I point to his advice time after time, so when do you think I’ll actually take it?) that it’s not worth tangling with these people, life is too precious and short and our time is better spent on those who are not closed minded, who are willing to meet in the middle at times even as they swing opposite at others. In order to do that, I would need to unfriend a few people who are giving me fits.
That feels as if I’m telling them their opinion has no validity, that I don’t want to know their opinion, or at the very least, that I have no valid counterpoint to their opinion. Ach! What’s really happening is that I’m tired of trying to open their closed minds, and it’s one more attempt in a series of windmill jousts that I need to give up for Lent, or something like that.
So I’m thinking, it’s time to take the advice of Obi Wan Jim Sathe and dump them. I have more important things to do than allow myself to continue to read and respond to their insidious poison. I definitely UNLIKE them, and as soon as I find a nice way to express that, I’m going to reduce my list of friends by a few.
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